Today I came to a disappointing realization. It began to grow as an idea two weeks ago when someone I work with said “you have to love every body.” I disagreed and said I have to help people but I didn’t have to love them. To help and serve is a human response. She tried to phrase it in religious ideology. What angered me about this was the source. Someone who condemns gays, transsexuals, and non-Christians. Stating these people will burn in hell seems very far from love to me.
I escape to the cyber world and see a lot of bickering. Just like the real world but highlighted by all caps. I read the comments and am staggered by the hypocrisy that runs rampant. The motto seems to be “don’t do this but I can if it suits my agenda”. It’s like the car who drives the speed limit or lower in the passing lane. They are obeying the law and are doing you a favor by slowing both lanes down. They took your decision making away based on that they feel is best and good for all.
Thinking about all of this has made me come to one conclusion. The reason so few people see how hypocritical they are is because they are so self unaware. Few people look at themselves introspectively. Instead they focus on everyone else and how if everyone else changed the world would be just perfect. For them.